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Candace's avatar

I loved this piece and your thoughtful perspective on it. The idea that support and autonomy can go hand in hand is really beautiful ❤️

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Anna Rollins's avatar

Heidi, this piece is so wonderful! I’m also someone who values independence and struggles to ask for help. I particularly connected with this part of your essay: “I've learned from the disability community that independence is an illusion. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and often what appears to be independence requires someone else's oppression or exploitation. The truth is we are all connected, and we all depend on each other for physical and emotional support, whether we acknowledge it or not.”

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